Hello...I'm a 40 yr old woman who was widowed approx 2 yrs ago. I am At a wierd stage in my life, starting over at 40 with my 11 yr old beautiful daughter, after my (10yr) common law hubby passed away in his sleep. I Never thought I would be without him let alone on a dating site! This is all very new to me so plz be patient. If you are looking for casual sex or Another mediocre, half ass relationship, then pass me by. This is hard enough for me and I'm a pretty skeptical person when it comes to online dating. I just hope to meet some REAL people, Not fake ones. Someone nice, loving, patient and kind with a good job and good morals. Family is everything to me as is my daughter. She comes first in my life. Always has, always will. I guess I cant say I'm actively looking for a man, but I believe in Karma and synchronicity so if it's meant to be, it will be. Thanks; Pamela!