Hi, my name is Brian and I am a central New Jersey native. I am an intelligent, confident, self-aware, adventurous and driven individual. I understand I am a perpetual work in progress. I do find I like to dive deep into conversations if they present themselves and have found that small talk, while it has its place, is overused in my world. I do value health and I train aggressively and I eat deliberately I do think the best we can hope for is finding individuals in which we share a physical attraction as well as have aligned important values. Identifying just these parameters are tough enough not to add in the expectation of being boyfriend and girlfriend by midnight. What I seek is an intelligent, confident, self-aware and understanding individual. Someone who would be willing to spontaneously take a flight to go see a concert and fly home. Or maybe to Europe for the weekend. The magical moments in life never happen within our comfort zones. Because of this I do seek out, to the best that I can now, discomfort.