John

Here are the things I believe in - either you'll understand me or you won't... Love, passion, joy, laughter, friendship, soulmates, deep feelings, spontaneity, wonder, excitement, music, dancing, quiet solitude, reflection, reading, writing, communicating, healthy living - mind body & soul, sharing, caring, breathing in the cool mountain air, being grateful for each moment here in this wonderland of existence, learning about myself and others, taking it all in and giving it back, breaking the rules of conformity, thinking for myself, creative inspiration, humility, talking, touching, art, imagination, taking risks for what I believe in, asking for help when I truly need it, fighting for what I believe is good and right and just, admitting when I'm wrong and learning from my mistakes, expanding my knowledge and understanding of this world I am apart of, overcoming my fears and peeking over the edge of the horizon, sunsets, the stars, the night, freaks and weirdos, strangeness, ghosts, reincarnation, The Great Spirit, sprites, fairies, time travel, the multiverse, coincidences, synchronicity, right now, right here, this moment, this time, this place, forever, eternity, playfulness, flexibility, young at heart mind & body, watching movies, reading books, exercising, goofing around, passing along words of wisdom to younger people, setting goals and working towards them - there's always another hill to climb or path to travel, sensuality, public displays of affection, boldness, confidence, challenges, improvising, making the most of what you have, willing to die for what you believe - willing to live for what you believe, Soulmates, all or nothing, do or do not, creating your own reality, walking on your own path, seeing the big-picture when you are fine-tuning the details, reaching out, extending yourself, pushing your limits, edging ever closer towards new and exciting levels of existence, a Phoenix rising from the ashes all aglow from the heat of transformation! I'm 50 years old, healthy, youthful, imaginative and passionate. I'm a happy person - a joyful & grateful person - who has no patience or room in my life for negative people. My profile picture is the latest picture I have ever taken of myself. Its not the best quality but its real and untouched. I look and feel much younger than my years and am looking for a Soulmate who reflects my beliefs and well-being - nothing less will do. I don't drink, smoke nor do drugs. I don't have any children. I've been married twice - for 9 years and then 12 years. I don't pay any alimony nor have any contact with my ex-wives. Both were deeply loving and passionate relationships which ended due to too much negative thinking, feelings and emotions which we were unable to pull ourselves away from during difficult times and differences of opinions. I have a degree in social work and made a career of that for about 15 years, but grew tired of the negativity throughout. It affected my life deeply. I have worked in a few other unrelated fields since I left, but always with people. I love to listen and talk with interesting people. I've had it all and lost it all a few times in my life but wherever I went there I was - with the same sense of wonder and excitement to create another life anew with the help of others who extended their generosity and friendship when I needed it. Like I said before, I want a Soulmate who reflects my passions and beliefs in this life because nothing less will fulfill me. I'd rather be alone than take a step backwards. I've come too far and grown to much to limit myself or another to a life less than extraordinary! May you live, love, laugh, learn, share and have joy and gratitude in all the days of your life... Thank you for being interested in reading about me