(FIRST OFF IF YOU ARE NOT FROM CALIFORNIA,MEANING THAT YOU DO NOT RESIDE IN CALIFORNIA AT THIS MOMENT OR ON A TRIP OUT OF CALIFORNIA THEN PLEASE STOP READING MY PROFILE AS I DO NOT WANT TO WASTE YOUR TIME OR MINE AS I ONLY WANT TO CHAT WITH SERIOUS MINDED WOMEN WHO LIVE IN CALIFORNIA ONLY,NO EXCEPTIONS,PERIOD !! THANK YOU FOR RESPECTING MY REQUEST AND I WILL RESPECT YOURS !!) LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO PLAY GAMES OR MESS AROUND AS I WANT TO ENJOY MY LIFE WITH MY NEW PARTNER IN LIFE !!!! Anyways back to the "about myself section" Well i'm single and am ready to start a new friendship/relationship for long term preferably and am looking for the same !!! I am self employed and am looking for a single female in my area,so if you don't live in California then it probably won't work as experience shows in the past !!! I've been single for for over a year now and i love it and am not desperate for any scammers,just looking for that right woman, to be by my side, through thick and thin !!! A relationship and love is what you put into it, as i have always put in 100% of myself into it and expect my partner to do the same !! I'm kinda shy at first but once I get to know you, you'll know with my openness,kindness and open mindedness !!!! I am an open book and very easy to read,like I said when I get to know you ! I am on this site because I'm looking for someone that wants the same things in life that I want !! The person I am looking for should understand that in my opinion that these dating sites are for you to find someone you have interest in both,physically,mentally,spirituality I plan on finding that someone who I would take a chance on through this site,however I do not want to have a relationship through this site,meaning that I dont want to live on this site forever and am looking for that first meetup in person to person,like coffee,dinner,etc,etc a date like when I was younger to see if we will have the right thing to make it a second date,because words only go so far after a while when your messaging back and forth forever on these kind of sites !! I want a woman of action that is not afraid to take that first step in meeting someone offline in person !! I am aware that there is a pandemic going on and you have to be careful these days as i practice safe distancing as it's the right thing to do but life must move forward as i will not let it deter me from finding that someone special,but safely !!! If you think that you meet the criteria that i have just explained above then drop me a message and we'll see what happens from there,but please just dont waste anybody's time as it just makes sense !!!