Everyone says ” I am not settling” which is GOOD to a CERTAIN extent ....but some people expections levels are set too high and they don’t realize if they don’t reevaluate their priorities in life... they will die alone. Then you have people that KNOW their requirements of what they “want” in relationship aren’t realistic... but thats ok to them. They are happy to get their milk for free without ever having to buy the cow.These (NOT ALL)...are the people that have been on here for years and haven’t had ANY type of solid relationship that has had a decent amount of time or chance to develop ....That my friends.. at the end of the day... has to be the most empty feeling in the world. One last thing.. physical attraction is important.. I believe there must be something ...even something smallest as their eyes or their hair or anything that you find appealing about that person. At the end of the day it will come down to personality match for me at least. You can go out on a date with one the most beautiful people that you have ever seen but once they open their mouth and start talking ... you know instantly that’s not the person my family would appreciate it.. then it may just the opposite... a kinda of a cute person but when they start talking it’s like a breath of fresh air. So I have learned to be open to what God has for me... For those who are interested in learning about me. I am Christian meaning I love the Lord and looking for someone that is like me. Everything else well .... I see it like this if you follow Christ then everything is subjective. I have no particular person I date or seeing myself marry one day. I just believe if you follow Christ things seem to fall into place most of the time ... saying that I am not perfect and thankful I don’t have to be. I do date for a purpose and not for a good time, I mean after all what’s the purposes dating? There is a lot more to me but I think this is good start about me .... so any other questions just ask . Cheers P.S. Someone please give me reason to get off this site!