French: La vie m'a apporté des choses merveilleuses au cours du temps et m'a gardé amoureux des bonnes choses, manquant à nouveau cet ingrédient nécessaire à aimer l’autre, la joie particulière d’une connexion mentale inséparable de la connexion charnelle.
Oui, je recherche d'abord une relation instinctive et durable, avec une femme cultivée et passionnée, capable de nourrir notre espace temps de conversation, de rires et de rêves.
Mes désirs intimes sont dérivés de jeux passionnels, plutôt que d'une liste fétichiste.
Pour moi, la compatibilité n'est pas tant basée sur une liste de critères rigides, mais plutôt sur un profil exaltant.
Nous sommes uniques, différent. C’est cette différence qui complète encense la magie.
English: Life brought wonderful things my way during my adult journey, and keep me back on this exciting path, missing one thing, the special joy of the physical connection that is an offshoot of the mental one.

I often wonder whether those who enjoy pleasure without some power exchange can ever feel at the level of those of us who have immersed in that dynamic. It is like nothing else, and drives me like a bear to honeycomb. That said, I seek an enviable real world connection on a human level first, before I would instinctively express my instinctive natures. The glow of this dynamic flame is often so tempting that I rather dance around it in sync with a genuine submissive partner.

My train of thought in lust is in a driver seat wrapped in loving arms. My desires are derived from commands and power play, rather than a fetish list. Intimate compatibility for me is not so much based on a list of the mediums used to serve each other kink, but rather on pleasing to enjoy the moment in context.

I like my kink served unexpectedly with a warm affectionate spirit, or occasionally hot in a fist of passion. I would pair best with a sub equally passionate who lives life with positivity, as we meet together life challenges. I embrace power exchange as part of a lifestyle, and a positive expression of how we feel about each other. As for a partner, I welcome that sapiosexual and demisexual click. I seek an authentic partner, where we would mutually empower in word and deed, and support one another in our journey, including experiencing the unparalleled euphoria of our sexual expression.

I am seeking the special joy of the physical connection triggered by the mental one. I am height-weight proportionate, a successful professional, healthy and clean, always in motion. I prefer purposeful communication over small talk, and open minded. I seek intimacy and emotional connection. I do not think of this as a sex site profile. For me, it is a way to seek and explore compatibility. It makes it more real if you plug into everything you are, and not put on something that might not fit and feel right. We are more than the sum of our physical & sexual preferences. People lose themselves trying to fit labels in one box

Power exchange should organically feed the yin and yang, and whatever variation, consent is the key variable on both sides, combined with mutual desire to create the high that is a result of submission and control. If you think like me, once trust establishes strongly bonds, I would be the one asking for your consent.

My sexuality is not social but a private, intensely personal journey with the right woman. I do not seek friends with benefits, as I am already fortunate enough to have one available for sweet surrender, when, and if, it suits the moment (so no need to add to my collection, nor add to yours). It is nice, but I seek a different kind of connection. Not here for hookups.

Dating is fine and I absolutely date, and if I choose to get serious with someone, that will stop. With that qualifier, the single star has lit.

I believe in gratitude and positivity. Whether it is sexuality, friendships, entrepreneurial pursuits, my children or my partner, I take it seriously, embrace it, and live my life (as my chosen partner would) with intensity, passion and joy. Many people visualize living their ideal lives letting go of responsibility I live my ideal life, with dedication and commitment to my goals and the goals of those I love (as my chosen partner would).

It is a lovestyle, not a lifestyle. Thank you for respecting my choice to seek a different kind of connection.